What Is Foster Care?

We are so excited that we are getting closer and closer to becoming licensed for foster care. In fact, tomorrow morning we have our home study scheduled! Our licensing agent will be checking to see that we’ve made all of the necessary provisions for a child to safely stay in our home.

So, what exactly is foster care? The more we talk with people, the more we realize that people don’t really understand what we are talking about when we say that we want to do foster care. That’s fine… in a perfect world there would never be a need for foster care. Here is the (paraphrased) definition we were given in our MAPP class:

Foster care is a protective service for children who have been abused, neglected, mistreated, or whose parents are otherwise unable to care for them due to illness or death. The child is given a family life experience in an agency-approved, certified, and licensed home for a temporary period of time. The primary goal of foster care is to provide safety and permanency. Foster parents are often in a position to help children and their families reunify if safety and well-being can be achieved or to assist in making adoption plans or other permanent plans for the children if reunification is not an option.

For example, (maybe not a good one-but it’s all can think of) in the movies when the police arrest a parent for some reason and then take the children back to the police station with them. Unless a relative of the child can be reached, plans are made to place the children in a foster home for the time being.

We really don’t mind answering questions, but we get really confused when people ask if we have a child picked out already. The answer is no. If someone makes a report that a child is being abused or neglected, the child gets removed from that situation as soon as possible. There is no child waiting in an unfit home for the past year while we get ready to be licensed.

Foster child

Instead, once we get licensed we are essentially “on-call” for when a situation arises. From what we’ve been told that will probably happen almost immediately, maybe even same-day. When we receive a call we can choose based on whatever factors we feel are important (such as age or type of abuse) if we feel like we are capable of caring for that specific child.

Hopefully this makes our mission a little clearer. :)

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  • http://kathyburton.blogspot.com/ Kathy Burton

    Very good explanation.  I’m just getting me and my home together to pursue fostering and possibly adoption.  I haven’t really blogged about it yet but as the time gets closer, I will be.  Interested in sharing experiences?

  • Kristin

    Absolutely, e-mail anytime. We don’t know hardly anyone who has fostered, but are getting ready to start going to a support group this week.

  • Leanne

    Well put, Kristin. I’m sure my friend Shelbi Lansing, could tell you about her experiences as a foster parent. She’s on facebook or with her permission we could give you her number.

  • Mmroark2

    Do you guys know Nathan and Tricia Lawrenson? They are on my facebook (Tricia has CF- and had a double lung transplant 4 years ago) They  have one biological child and they just recently became foster parents. I think what you are doing is so awesome. :-)   My mommy was a foster child.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1201650452 Jerry Petersen

    You guys rock, Kristin! Great explanation, too.

  • Kristin

    I’ll have to find her on facebook.

  • Kristin

    I know Jesse is friends with them, I keep meaning to look them up.

  • Kristin

    Thanks :)

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  • http://www.cffatboy.com/ Jesse Petersen

    Yeah, I follow their stuff closely and have offered their experiences any time I have a question. Pretty neat couple.

  • Cara Hembd

    Hi Kristen, I am so happy you are deciding to Foster.  We have been fostering for years and have adopted three children and it is such a blessing.  We have recently come under persecution for our beliefs in helping children in the system from surprisingly enough our Pastor and fellow church members.   People often believe things about CPS that they don’t understand.  They see propaganda on TV about how a child was taken away because their parent’s spanked them or other such things and then they deem the whole system as evil and and anti-Christian.  I am so thankful there are Christians who are standing up and fighting for the souls of these young children.  Please email me if you ever have any questions or need someone to talk to.

  • Kristin

    Thanks for the comment, Cara. I’m sorry to hear that you are being judged for you decisions. I will definitely make a note of your email and will probably use it sometime.